Have a good day friends 🙏🙏
Good Evening Friends…
It’s always good to have safe exit than unknown exit
In life, we face many situations where we aren’t sure about the cause. We go through different waves of change via which either we find our true direction or lost our ways… We stress ourselves to such an extent where U-Turn is not so easy. Hence, we end up with something unwanted. How to analyze such situations or what is the exact pattern to handle them and know how to response to that ‘what and when situation’???
Guys, we all usually have two visions of every situation. Sometimes we know which one is correct and which one is incorrect. But majority of times, we are confused. Yes, that’s correct. Even after knowing all if’s and buts, we aren’t sure… Let’s make it simple. Whenever you face an unwanted situation, first ask yourself, is this situation because of you? If yes, then why worry, think of a solution there and then. As, if we know we are the reason of that cause or situation, we are already near to it’s solution. But actual problem is when we are not the reason. Afterwards, ask yourself, how you were connected to this situation??? From that connection, your analysis power will become more sharper and then ask yourself, how to be out of it and plan things accordingly.
If you are being asked for something and you know you are not liable to answer or someone doesn’t have right to ask you, don’t answer. Walk out from there with a smile and Thank him or her for making you realize when is right time to EXIT!
If you are asked to do something, for which your inner self doesn’t allow. Raise your voice and say ‘NO’ and walk away with a smile!
If you are being judged without you being at fault, don’t justify, because judgement only comes when someone doesn’t trust you. Make an immediate EXIT!
If you are being fired, without your fault, don’t feel sorry for yourself, rather be thankful to everyone and Almighty, as they all opened doors for you , which is called “SAFE EXIT DOOR’…
Friends, it’s very important to know your value, where you stand, who you are, what you are meant for, most importantly when to make an exit proudly!!!
Let’s not complicate situations for ourselves and others too, be easy and there is nothing called STRESS, it’s only our thoughts. Walk free, breath pure and think smartly… Then see the Magic beings!!!
In process of making others happy, we tend to loose ourselves. We say we feel happy to make others happy, but why we lose ourselves then? Very simple, first expectations and other is selfish motive.
Remember simple rule, do whatever makes you happy, but do not expect nor hold selfish motive, as at the end you will be at loss. Else don’t do it at all. Call is yours, remember to always love your-self and not hurt your soul. If you will hurt your soul, it means you are hurting God’s creation… Decide your move and be the master of your own feelings!!!
Be the most craziest person when it comes to joy, enjoy every bit of it.. Make it memorable fir yourself to constantly remind that how lucky you are to know your inner child… Celebrate each day in joy, cherish every second of that moment, no matter what, never let that child go away as our real strength lies within 😘😘😘
We all rock , remember that 😉😉
“Words can either make you or break you, choose them wisely”…
We often hear that words have power to either mend or rupture but we don’t understand the real meaning of this. We still make mistakes, play with words, fool around others with power of words irrespective of their results…
I would like to share one experience over here. A very common relation of patient and doctor. Most of us visit of doctors very frequently due to our current lifestyles or atmospheric changes and so on.
My cousin was suffering from deep pain at her lower back because of prolonged sittings at her work place. After few days when it was not under control, she visited to doctor and as prescribed she had medicines, but no such relief. She changed doctor and then some series of tests and finally she got to know the root cause of problem (There was cyst near her tail bone). Doctor suggester her surgery and assured that within a month she will be back to her normal lifestyle. After cross confirming from other doctors too and with almost same assurance, she and her family agreed for the surgery. It was quite painful and challenging, as she couldn’t sit , nor walk, complete bed rest with awkward body postures. Doctor used to visit her home for dressings, sometimes he used to call her at hospital based on the analysis. During 2nd week of dressing, she felt something is not right and raised her concern to her parents. Doctor said ‘it’s nothing, just your assumption’. He assured , “Remember he assured and they trusted what he said. His words were accepted as it is”… After 2-3 days she felt that there was some kind of discharge. They went again and asked doctor to recheck. When he checked, he found slight infection and cleaned it and changed the course of treatment. He acclaimed, it’s part of process so nothing to bother. “2nd assurance”. One week passed and she felt better during that week. One night suddenly she woke up with pain and could feel the stickiness more than ever in that region. And when her mother checked, it was all blood with pus , they rushed to hospital and called the doctor. When he saw, he said infection is spread deep inside, so we need to operate it again but it will be minor one (reason of infection, since it is sensitive area so there are chances of re-occurrence)… Another month passed, but no results. They went to other doctors too and they said it’s infection and it will take time. “3rd assurance”… 4 months passed and there was slow healing. By God’s grace , they came across one doctor who took over the case and investigated that infection is because cyst was formed again and it was not cured on time. And this whole process took 1 year to get her back to her normal life… “4th assurance, which finally worked for her”…
Similar way, there are many situations, where we trust people, follow them, or may be they are our ideals, without second though, we believe what they say. Their one word even matter to us. Like in above case, she trusted her surgeon and believed his words. Maybe doctor couldn’t diagnose it well or maybe he didn’t expected such results. It could be anything, but his words gave assurance that she will be fine soon… But that soon took 1 years. In her case, doctor himself could have done further investigation or she could have changed doctor at very first stage. But all took time because of Words…
So friends, think before you say. If you promise something, think 10 times, if you give commitment, make sure you stand by it. Even if you are joking, make sure it sounds like it. If your are commenting something, it should be wise enough… When someone believes you, make sure not to break their believe. If you can’t stand by their side or cannot support,straight away say No but don’t hold on. Don’t make them wait or give false hopes when you yourself know, it is not worth waiting for…
Be a wise speaker than being a curse!!!
BUT if I will not look back how will I get to know what all I Missed or failed to achieve due to my weaknesses… What if, if I will not give up , will I ever realize the pain of loosing something?? If I will always smile and not bother then how will I know my “INNER STRENGTH” to fight back and Stand again… Last but not the least, if I will always help people how will I know,’when they are not helped by me’ then how they gonna treat “ME” 🤔🤔🤔
So we should always face the ODD PHASES OF LIFE, then only we can Grow Better and Say to ourselves “I AM WHAT I AM and THIS IS WHERE NOTHING CAN BREAK ME MORE”!!!
Good Morning Friends 😊😊
This morning while going to my work place, I met one girl, little tired yet sign of joy on her face. She was blushing and she was narrating something to her friend…
She was telling that she couldn’t sleep well at night with no reasons of delay from her end but while sleeping she prayed I need good sleep and when I get up I should be fresh and satisfied. It was almost 2 am when she prayed with little frustration… Then at 4 am she woke up all of sudden and had her glass of water and was little fresh… Then she heard some group of people singing hyms of god and all she could hear was “Waheguru, Waheguru, Waheguru”… And with that she didn’t realize when she dosed off… When she woke up morning she was all fresh and satisfied … This is how she began with beautiful and blessed morning 🙏🙏
God can perform miracle anytime anywhere 😊😊😊